Thai Girls - What you should know!
October 23, 2007
Don’t believe what you hear about Thai girls from promiscuous Thailand sex tourists!
If you’ve done any searching on the internet about Thailand and especially Thai girls you’ve likely found tons of stories, many of them written by western men. These stories are their first hand accounts of Thailand and Thai girls in particular, but you should keep in mind that most of these stories are coming from a small minority of the men visiting Thailand in search of sex. The Thai girls they meet and talk about are mostly prostitutes and bargirls working in popular red light districts like Nana Plaza, Patpong and Soi Cowboy. These Thai girls are a minority of the Thai female population and should not in anyway be confused with everyday good Thai girls.
When you read these stories you’ll get the impression that all Thai girls are just after your money and that they all lie, but please don’t believe these tales of despair. Consider the source…these are tourists looking for nothing but cheap sex. Even so, Thai prostitutes are often much more honest and (at least on the surface) caring than their western or Latin American counterparts.
Good Thai girls from normal society make outstanding girlfriends and wives. Thai culture puts an emphasis on women caring for their men and on family so marrying a Thai girl is the best move you can make in my opinion. And while Thai girls are typically shy about physical contact in public this is completely not true in private. Thai’s do not have most of the sexual hang-ups and taboos that westerners have and they can be very uninhibited in private.
So how can you meet a nice Thai girls? Well, the obvious answer is to move to Thailand, learn some of the language and then simply talk to the girls you meet in your daily life just like you would in your own country. Many Thai girls are quite open to having a foreigner (farang) for a boyfriend or husband and you’ll find that you should have no problem whatsoever getting dates in this way.
If you don’t live in Thailand then I would like to suggest ThaiLoveLinks to you. Here you can meet many Thai girls who are interested in meeting foreigners for dating and marriage. I can personally recommend ThaiLoveLinks because I met my wife Golf through this site. Even though I travel to Thailand frequently, because I don’t live there full time it was much easier to meet someone through this site.
If you choose to use ThaiLoveLinks and you need any help communicating with a girl feel free to contact us. Golf would be happy to do translations for you and for the girl. And if you end up meeting someone and getting married I would love to hear about it.
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while having limited experience with Thai women, I have seen the blending of western society in the younger generation, the shyness in public places and their lack of inhibition in private. They are wonderfully feminine and devoted within relationships, a breath of fresh air. But beware the more modern girls, as they act far less traditionally than their mothers, and be very aware of appearances, presentation and manners. All of which are highly valued in this asian culture, and with the politeness of the Thai culture, they will seldom, if ever, correct you or indicate that you have offended them.
What a great chummy site ! Kop kuhn Khrap
I am Australian, I met my Thai grilfriend through Thai Love Links. After 6 weeks of cam chatting on MSN I am going to Thailand to meet her face to face in 3 weeks.
I found chatting with a webcam is fantastic. You immediately see spontaneous responses to jokes, her concerns for my welfare and her light up like a little jem etc etc..
I had a stereotype of Thai girls somewhat influenced by Pattaya type sex reports etc. etc But she appears to me a very devoted, honest and caring girl. She is very hard working and has a tough life looking after her son and her parents. I understand there is no social security in Thailand. Her family is quite poor.
The money side of things is a bit of culture shock though. I paid a debt she had; dentistry for her teeth and sent over general support money. I also paid for my plane fares at peak time/rate and was mindful of the impending Visa expenses. All within about an 8 week period.
She very much appreciated a plan I provided; for engagement, visa, marriage and family support. I took a very serious approach to this. I do not want to get involved unless its likely to work and secondly once involved, I want the best life for us and her family that I can reasonably provide.
But after forking out quite a bit, she then mentioned a dowry and a house ! by that time I was already “counting my pennies” a bit. I was bit deflated by this , the timing was very bad, and I felt it was “over the top”. Also I have a “cognitive repository” of Thai girls ripping off Farangs.
She saw my reactions, she had a sleepless night and was also scolded by her parents for expecting too much from me. I dont think she realised that I was already feeling pressure. I had pretty much presented myself as a rich rescuing angel I reckon.
So, all in all, it was understandable that a 26 year old might be a bit finacially tactless across the cultural and factual divide.
After sleeping on it and researching your site. I realise that I have plenty of time to respond appropriately to the requirements of Thai culture, especially the dowry, engagement, marriage and support.
I intend to pay about 110,000 baht for the Dowry. When she comes to Australia with me we will act as a team and save for a house in Thailand and set up her folks in it.
Thanks again
Oh Golf looks a happy sweetie !
Take care
Brendan