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Thailand Musings I first went to Thailand in 1997 and immediately fell in love with the country. Thailand at that time to me was mysterious and exotic, full of potentials and pitfalls. Fast forward to 2010 and here I am after 13 years and many trips to the LOS sharing, with the help of my Thai wife Golf, my experiences and knowledge with you here at Thailand Musings. Thailand may have lost some mystery for me, but it is still exotic and wonderful and I will always remember that first feeling when I stepped out into the Bangkok smog for the first time. I have yet to learn everything about Thailand and thankfully for all of us Golf is here to correct me when I err.

27 October 2007 ~ 2 Comments

Old School StickmanBangkok

One of the first sites I came upon when I started traveling to Thailand in the late 1990′s was StickmanBangkok. At that time it was the definitive guide to Bangkok’s nightlife with over 95,000 words detailing every aspect of prostitution, bargirls and “naughty nightlife” that Bangkok had to offer. Even though my main goal in traveling to Thailand was not to partake in the offerings of the bargirls it was fascinating reading. It opened a window to a part of the human (i.e. western male and Thai bargirl) psyche that couldn’t be found elsewhere.

Stickman took the “naughty nightlife” section of his website down many years ago, but through the magic of Alexa you can still go back in time and read what is very likely the most definitive guide to Bangkok’s bargirls and night party scene ever written. I feel it is a must read for anyone who is planning on venturing into Nana Plaza, Patpong, Soi Cowboy and even farther a field to Pattaya or Patong Beach in Phuket. Read below the opening paragraphs of the former “Stickman’s Guide to Naughty Nightlife in Bangkok”.

“Welcome to Stickman’s Guide to Naughty Nightlife in Bangkok. This section of this website about Bangkok has slowly been put together as a guide to those seeking information about the commercial sex industry and prostitution in Thailand, particularly Bangkok. The information on this topic is put together in a single page and therefore may take a while to download if you have a dial-up modem connection. Everything is included on this one page and is not in individual selectable pages, although I have also written several other articles and also write a weekly column called Stickman Weekly which also features Bangkok’s naughty nightlife. The reason for this site, or at least this page, being so long is that the whole site has been written as a sort of single article and while it may be long, it is intended to be read right through. Reading certain sections on their own means that some things could be taken out of context. Further, as there is a lot here, I feel it is easier just to sit down and read it all, rather than have to real small sections and keep having to click on new link after new link to continue reading.

This is the guide to nightlife in Bangkok that puts content ahead of presentation. Sick of internet sites that have great presentation and lousy content? Then this is the site for you because I have put a lot of effort into the content and less into the presentation and appearance of the site. I’m sorry if you find the grey text on a black background difficult to read but as I have a nice monitor to view it all on, I do not. Also, as we are dealing with prostitution here, I find that these colours set the mood better than others.

There is a plethora of information available on the Internet about the sex scene in Bangkok already so how is this site any different? I wrote this guide as an expatriate who has been living in Bangkok for a while and who has observed the industry over a period of time. At one point in time, I did indulge a little at a time when I was new to Bangkok, but that is now a long time in the past. I have written this site largely from my own experiences and also of those close to me and the objective is to provide the sort of information that I was looking for before I came here but had to find out for myself – to answer the questions that I would like to have had answered.

This site provides factual information about the commercial sex industry but is not intended as a guide on how to get your rocks off as cheaply and effectively as possible. As much as anything, it is a study in human behaviour, and looks at the fascinating subject of how predominantly Western men who in many cases have never had a sexual experience with a prostitute come to Thailand and not only have such an experience, but even go on to fall in love with these girls! How does it happen? Why does it happen? Where do these people go? Who are the people involved? Is this common? What is it about Thai women that attracts Western men? All of these questions and many more are answered below.”

If you’re interested in reading more of what Stickman once had to say about Bangkok nightlife, prostitution and bargirls then head over to the Wayback Machine.

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Steve started Thailand Musings in 2006 after meeting and marrying Golf on the site Thai Love Links. The site was started as a way to share information about Thailand, it's people, culture and traditions and has grown substantially since that time. As a long time visitor to the Kingdom Steve hopes you enjoy his thoughts and observations about Thailand and it's culture. He can be contacted here.

2 Responses to “Old School StickmanBangkok”

  1. Bruce 26 November 2009 at 1:42 am Permalink

    I used to read and enjoy “Stickman” but it started getting crowded by writers who always wanted to “one-up” him and show him how much they know.
    Also I suspect many of the writers haven’t even set foot here but cull their stories by reading “BKK Post”, “Pattaya People” and other scandal sheets.

    Stickman himself flip-flops; one column he announces he’s sick of Thailand and plans to move back to NZ, the next he says LOS is ok.
    He is incredibly naïve about the world outside of Thailand, discounting the creeping authoritarianism of “Political Correctness” in NZ, the UK and the States.
    He even thinks American women are very cool and are the greatest despite never having lived in the States or experienced knowing an American woman.
    Stickman has “gotten religion”, i.e. married a Thai lady and now looks down on the nightlife scene, allowing “Dave the Rave” of Angelwitch to ghost write that section.
    His attitude of “I’ve got mine, screw the rest of you!” is irksome.
    His column is a waste of time and bandwidth IMHO.

    Bruce

  2. Steve 26 November 2009 at 8:33 pm Permalink

    Bruce,

    Thanks for visiting Thailand Musings and for your insightful comment about the Stickman site. To be honest I haven’t been over there in quite some time, but I do know exactly what you mean about the writers there now. The site was actually more useful when it was first started and has changed into something quite different over the years.

    I’m pretty sure Stickman has been going back to NZ for quite some time now hasn’t he? Well, some people are never happy no matter where they are huh? And I think it makes perfect sense for him to turn over the nightlife column to someone else now that he is married. I’m pretty sure Golf wouldn’t like me covering the scene in Nana and Patpong. Of course it makes for a completely different column and if you want Dave the Rave’s take on Bangkok nightlife why not just visit his site.

    I do know that the site is still popular and I’m sure many guys have gotten quite a bit from it over the years. Maybe not your cup of tea and maybe no longer what it was, but it is still valuable to some section of Thailand visitors. Now you have me curious to go back and take another look.


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