Interview With James Turner
I’ve done quite a few interviews with Thailand bloggers over the past months to give you all a different perspective on Thailand, Thai culture and Thai-Farang relationships. Today I have another interview for you except it’s not another blogger. Today’s interview is with James Turner, the author of the book “Beyond The Comfort Zone”; an auto biographical account of the time he was living in Chiang Mai.
The book is quite good and well worth reading and as you’ll see below James is quite well spoken and still maintains a strong connection to Thailand. In fact her wrote the previous post on Thailand Musings called Thai Cultural Observations, a bit of a teaser and lead in to this interview. I hope you all enjoy this as much as I enjoyed conversing with the interviewee.
When you moved to Thailand in 2002, what made you choose Chiang Mai as your home?
I’d read quite a lot about the best places to live in Asia and at the time Chiang Mai was in the top 10 list. I wanted to live in a place where I wasn’t going to be swamped during the tourist season, somewhere more akin to the real Thailand.
Did you plan on staying longer in Thailand? What made you leave in 2005 rather than staying on in a country you seem to love so much?
I did plan on a longer stay but I got offered a job in the US which was too good to turn down. That combined with some personal circumstances and the sense of a new adventure made it the right time for a move.
Based on your book it seems as if you are fairly fluent in Thai. Did you find the language easy to learn? How long did it take you to become at least conversational?
Well, I’m not sure I would claim any fluency in Thai, but yes I can have a reasonably detailed conversation. I found the language extremely challenging, certainly the most difficult language I’ve ever attempted. It took a long time to become anywhere near conversational and even then you would have to define ‘conversational’. I still have difficulty with the TV news for example. Having a Thai girlfriend helped enormously and I refused to speak English in my day to day life in C.M. which made for some very amusing exchanges! It was perhaps a year and a half of that kind of daily determination before I could hold down a conversation.
Would you consider moving back to Thailand full time? Why or why not?
Absolutely. I certainly want to get a base back in Thailand in fact I’m considering properties right now. It’s still my favorite place in the world and I would probably move to Bangkok next time I think. For all its faults it is one of the world’s great city’s.
Do you ever get back to Thailand? How often and for how long typically?
Less and less these days unfortunately. I haven’t been back for about two years due to my filming commitments. My last time there I think was for six months. My shortest time visiting will usually be a couple of months, so eight weeks or so.
I have to ask because so many of my readers are interested in Thai-Farang relationships; what is it
about Thai girls that make them so attractive to Western guys in your opinion?
It is different things for different people I imagine. Certainly they are more respectful and demure than women have become in the west and I think that is appealing to some. Although I personally think that Thai women are anything but subservient. I think their gentle demeanor is sometimes mistaken for that, but in my opinion it is (or should be) a two way street of mutual respect. Compliment a Thai girls respectful nature with some reciprocal manners and life can be very nice indeed. Don’t…and be prepared for fireworks!
What things do you feel have changed the most in Thailand since the time you lived there?
I think there is more understanding of westerners now, of our cultural differences. Obviously there has been a drive to modernize the outlying provinces in many ways. What has continued in Bangkok and Chiang Mai is the relentless upward trend of consumerism. I hope that last one doesn’t de-rail the Thai sense of ‘Sanuk’ because that would be a shame.
I see on your website that you are trying to establish a charity to help the children in Thailand who have little or nothing. I think this is a very worthwhile endeavor and wish you all the good fortune in the world in making it happen. Can you tell us a little more about the charity, what you’ve done so far and what your plans are for expanding it in the future.
At the moment I have just established the mechanism for fulfilling the objective. So, we are ready to start accepting donations. The idea is to grow it according to the resources. As you say, It is focused on children. In the first instance we will probably be supporting existing structures in Thailand (Orphanages for example) to provide additional food, clothing, educational material etc; But the hope is to be able to provide our own infrastructure to facilitate growing the child’s own capability to provide for their own future. That would include access to education and trade skills, technology, that sort of thing. It’s a long road to get to that point and we may struggle to get there. But, I think it is important to help in areas where small things could possibly make a big difference.
At the end of “Beyond the Comfort Zone” you allude to further stories from the Indian Ocean tsunami that devastated parts of southern Thailand in December 2004. Are you currently working on that book and if so when do you think it will be published?
I was toying with the idea of a fictional book centered around the event. But I have several T.V. and film projects in the works at the moment as well as two other book ideas, so I don’t think that the Tsunami idea will be something that is going to end up on that list. But, never say never!
What further advice can you give to someone who is planning on living in Thailand long term? What things should they focus on and which can they say “mai bpen rai”" to?
I think one has to try and maintain a sense of self which, on the face of it, should seem an easy thing to do but isn’t. At the same time one has to try to embrace the Thai way of approaching things. Avoid direct confrontation and always, repeat ALWAYS leave people a way out of a situation with their feelings and face intact. Learn the language – that should be an imperative. Say “Mai bpen rai” to as much as you can get away with; the heat, the rain, the illogical approach to problem solution and the fact that your thirty five year old girlfriend is always going to cover the bedroom in stuffed toy animals and hello kitty memorabilia.
One can walk down a soi in Bangkok complaining about the smell and the cockroaches and the heat – or – one can look above the smell and admire the spirit houses, bougainvillea, coconut palms, blue skies and even in Bangkok everyone is always smiling. I know which version of that walk I will be focusing on.
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