Now that Golf has been in the U.S. for over one and a half years she wants to share some of her thoughts and observations about life in the U.S. versus life in Thailand. So, this will be the beginning of a series of posts about her thought and feeling since coming to the U.S. She said she will try to post once a week, but it could be more or less than that. Posts will be in both English and Thai so her Thai friends can enjoy her posts as well. Hope you all enjoy! [...]

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Please note that these requirements are for single males or females wishing to retire in Thailand. If you are married then the requirements are similar, but with some additional decisions to make regarding whether to go with individual or joint visa’s. These rules are accurate as of July 2008. I will try to update this page if any changes to the Thai retirement visa are made.

If you’re thinking of retiring to Thailand then you’ll want to decide how you’re going to stay there. There are two different routes you can take; each has it own pros and cons, but in the end I think they kind of wash out. One way is to get a one year extension to an “O” visa and the other is to get an “O-A” visa which is the official retirement visa. They are similar, but not quite the same. Which route you want to take is up to you to decide. In either case you’ll need to satisfy the following requirement:

–Proof of income. Either 800,000 baht in a Thai bank or proof of 65,000 baht per month incomefrom outside Thailand or any combination of the two. For example if you have proof of 32,500 baht per month in income then you would need to also show proof of 400,000 baht deposited in a Thai bank. Note: The bank statement must show that the money came from outside Thailand.

–You must be at least 50 years of age and in good health.

ONE YEAR ‘EXTENSION’ FOR A NON-IMMIGRANT ‘O’ VISA.

First of all you need to apply for and be granted a non-immigrant “O” visa prior to leaving your country. The non-immigrant “O” visa can be single, double, triple and sometimes quadruple entry. A single entry “O” visa will have a 90 day validity and the others all have a 180 day validity. Application can be made at any Thai embassy or consulate. A full list of Thai embassies and consulates can be found at Embassies Abroad.

Once you have the non-immigrant “O” visa and you’re over 50 years of age, getting a 1 year retirement extension is fairly easy and these days quick. This extension can be had at the Immigration office in most major areas. You will be required to pay a fee of 1900 baht. I know that it can be done for sure in Bangkok, Phuket and Pattaya. If any reader has information about other immigration offices in Thailand and visa extensions please leave a comment below.

Now the financial obligation comes into play.

In order to get a 1 year retirement extension to your non-immigrant “O” visa you’ll need to show proof of financial stability in the form of either 800,000 baht deposited in a Thai bank account or 65,000 baht per month income from outside of Thailand. Note that you are not permitted to work when in Thailand on a retirement visa. A combination of these two will be accepted; basically you need to prove 800,000 baht per year is available to you either through deposit at a Thai bank or through monthly income. To prove your bank deposit you’ll need the following:

(1) two photocopies of the passbook page showing your name & account number
(2) two photocopies of the passbook page showing the current balance
(3) two *original* copies of a guarantee letter from the bank (your bank may charge for this)

To prove monthly income you’ll need a notarized letter from the U.S. Embassy in Bangkok. The charge is 1,200 baht and it takes less than an hour to obtain. You fill out the form yourself, and no supporting documentation is required. Whatever income amount you put down is certified to be true by the notarization, and Thai Immigrations will accept the form as is. The hours at the Embassy are 0730-1100 and 1300-1400.

You may also need to show a letter from your embassy that you Wish to Retire in Thailand and occasionally they will also request a recent medical certificate from a government approved medical facility.

Requirements to get 1 year retirement extension for non-immigrant “O” visa at Thailand Immigration office:

· Application form T.M.7

· Passport + Copies of passport or substitute document. (Passport must have validity in excess of 12 months)

· Two 4 x 6 cm photos (just one in Pattaya).

· 1900 baht fee.

· Proof of financial status or regular income from abroad (bank certification for financial status and notarized letter from your embassy for regular income).

· Letter from your embassy stating you Wish to Retire in Thailand (not always required)

· Recent medical certificate from an approved medical facility (not always required)

The fist time you get the 1 year retirement extension to your non-Imm “O” visa your permission to enter stamp in your passport will be extended by 12 months. You can renew when it reaches expiration and each renewal will be for another 12 months and will cost 1900 baht. The initial approval can be a bit of a hassle to prove your qualification, but after that it’s usually a breeze.

When you are in Thailand on a 1 year retirement visa you cannot simply leave Thailand if you’re planning a trip. If you leave the country it cancels your current visa and you will need to start all over again. If you plan on travel outside of Thailand you will need to get an exit/re-entry permit. A one time exit/re-entry permit is 1000 baht and a multiple use exit/reentry permit is 3800 baht. Each is available from your local immigration office and each expires on the same date as your extension.

Also note that with the 1 year extension you will need to report your address to the local immigration office every 90 days. Currently this must be done in person, but there are supposedly plans to make this available over the internet in the future.

O-A (LONG STAY/RETIREMENT) VISA:

This type of visa was designed for those wishing to retire in Thailand. Currently this visa is available in UK, USA, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, Europe, UAE, but may be available elsewhere. The type “O-A” visa is obtained in your home country prior to coming to Thailand and is quite similar to the retirement extension for non-immigrant “O” visas.

An “O-A” visa must be applied for only through the Thai embassy in your country. You do need to show financial standing, medical status, and a criminal activity report as part of the application process. Many people think that the process for an “O-A” visa is both complex and expensive. There are three benefits I can think of to this type of visa.

1. All the paperwork is done in your home country and in your native language making the process easier to understand.

2. No need to visit immigration once inside Thailand

3. The financial requirement for an “O-A” visa applies to your home country meaning you don’t need to bring money into Thailand to qualify.

Some embassies (but not all) also offer the “O-A” visa as a multiple entry visa, which saves you the trouble of going to immigration in Thailand to get exit/re-entry permits. If cost is a factor in your decision you may want to avoid this type of visa. It seems that it is more convenient, but the cost of the paperwork is much higher than if you were to get a non-immigrant “O” visa and upgrade it with an extension once you’re in Thailand. Only you can decide which option is better for you.

The most important factor to the Thai Immigration officer is that you sufficient capital and income to live in Thailand without having to rely on the Thai government in the event of a major problem. If you can show more than the minimum amount it is a big help in getting your retirement extension or “O-A” visa approved. Showing just the bare minimum does open up the possibility of being refused.

PLEASE REMEMBER, if you have permission to stay for a ‘long’ period (e.g. a ‘Retirement Visa’), you must report to an Immigration Office every 90 days to confirm your address – or pay a 5000 baht fine + 200 baht a day!

For more Thailand Retirement questions answered see the post “Questions of Retiring to Thailand”

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Recently I was asked to discuss retiring in Thailand and this is the first in a series of posts answering the first question I identified – “Where will you live”. I decided to break the answer up into individual posts for each city I plan on covering rather than overwhelm everyone with a 2500 word post that includes everything. I plan on writing about Bangkok, Chiang Mai, Phuket and Pattaya as possible retirement destinations; I may add more once the series has begun based on reader feedback.

I think the first place that comes to mind when people consider retiring to Thailand is Bangkok. This is a logical thought since Bangkok is the capital of Thailand, the hub of it’s commerce and the largest city in Thailand by far. There are many positives and many negatives when you consider living in Bangkok full time. Ultimately it’s up to you what deciding factors you want to use as some people can overlook certain negatives and a positive for one person isn’t necessarily so for others.

Since Bangkok is such a large city with a huge population (over 10 million last time I checked) it comes with a lot of the same positives and negatives as other large cities. Of course in Bangkok the negatives are a bit amplified I think due to the comparative lack of infrastructure based on Western ideas.

The traffic in Bangkok is legendary and if you think you’ll go crazy after several years of sitting in traffic jams then you may need to seriously consider another destination. While taxi’s are plentiful and still cheap even after the recent hike in prices you will sit in traffic – a lot. Especially during morning and afternoon rush hours you can easily plan on a 1 ½ to 2 hour commute if you’re traveling across the city. Even at 2am you could experience gridlock in the popular nightlife areas and be stuck.

Along with the traffic you’ll experience a much higher degree of pollution than you’re used to. If you have any type of breathing ailment like asthma or bronchitis then you may want to reconsider Bangkok as a home or at least see how you react after an extended period of time there. On a good note however, air pollution in Bangkok has actually declined by 47% in the past decade thanks to more stringent emissions laws, the MRT and BTS rail systems and the use of natural gas to fuel cars.

Yes, there are more negatives, but I don’t believe they are restricted to Bangkok. There are just some negatives you’ll find in many Thailand locations so I won’t stress them specifically for Bangkok. With the top two negatives out of the way I’ll focus now on the positives.

The biggest positive for many Westerners is the availability of western products in Bangkok. No they won’t always be easy to find, but if you’re looking for specific foods or larger sized shoes and clothing you’ll have a much easier time getting them in Bangkok than you would in Phitsaulok for example. There is a large number of expats based in Bangkok and there are places that cater to their needs.

The fact the there are a large number of Western expats in Bangkok is another positive for many potential retirees. Finding friends and acquaintances in Bangkok isn’t all that difficult even for the least social people. In addition, there are many expat clubs and programs (art, cooking and language type) geared towards the Western expat.

If you still love going out then the nightlife in Bangkok is legendary and unrivaled and you won’t have any problems there. Even if it’s just for a nice dinner with your family and friends you’ll be able to find a host of upscale restaurants and clubs in Bangkok to ‘discover’ for the first time.

You may or may not be interested in learning the local language (I would definitely recommend it), but I can assure you it won’t be quick or easy. In Bangkok you’ll have less trouble with the language barrier as there are many more Thai’s speaking English in Bangkok than in other areas of the country. No, it’s still not even close to perfect, but it sure beats what you’ll find in more remote areas and even at some of the tourist beach areas.

One big plus for retirees are the top notch international hospitals to be found in Bangkok. Naturally as we get older healthcare becomes more important. Bangkok has some really good hospitals catering to international patients. The doctors and staff are all highly trained and the costs are inexpensive (compared to the west). You’ll be hard pressed to find comparable healthcare outside of Bangkok.

Overall, Bangkok is a great place to retire if you like the hustle of a big city. As you might expect it has the greatest amount of convenience and infrastructure combined with the normal big city frustrations. Personally I think that a few years there would be great, but I don’t know if I could stay longer than that as I’m not really a big city guy. Nice to visit in my opinion, but not to live. Really, if you need Western conveniences and healthcare occasionally it might be better to live outside Bangkok and visit from time to time.

You can find all of the articles in the Retirement in Thailand series here

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I humbly present to you the nomination of Thailand Musings as the best travel blog from the Bloggers Choice Awards.  Please help us do as well as possible in the voting by clicking on the nifty button that we’ve gotten from the Bloggers Choice Awards (in the sidebar) and vote for Thailand Musings as the best travel blog of 2008.

Honestly I don’t expect to win, but it would be great to get a bunch of votes.  Thanks in advance for your support.

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Looks like an online poll by Travel + Leisure magazine voted Bangkok as the top city in the world for vacation travel. The Galapagos were voted the top island in the world for travelers. Last year the winners were Florence, Italy and Bali, Indonesia.

This is the first time that Bangkok has grabbed the title for top vacation city in the world and it’s about time. All of us that have been there know the charms of the Big Mango. About time the rest of the world discovered it too.

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Recently I was asked to write about retiring in Thailand. As you can imagine this is a pretty broad topic and it is going to take several posts for me to even begin to address this. Hopefully it will also spur a lot of discussion within the comments as I know people have different opinions about some of the areas that will need to be covered.

I am not an expert in this area, but I have done quite a bit of thinking about it since it is my plan to eventually retire in Thailand as well. Unfortunately I think for me it might be a few years yet before I get to that point (I’m only 41!). So, what things have I considered in terms of retiring to Thailand or moving there full time even if not retired (which is even more complex due to visa issues).

Here are several questions I think will need to be answered and/or planned for prior to making the leap:

Where in Thailand will you live? Different people like different things and fortunately Thailand can accommodate many different types of personalities. Golf and I have put A LOT of thought and discussion into this subject already. In a later post I will discuss some options such as Bangkok, Chiang Mai, Phuket or other beach areas and possibly Issan (not much personal experience there). See the links below for individual articles.

Retiring in Bangkok

How much money will you need? When considering money I think several factors need to be considered including savings, monthly income requirements, working in Thailand, inflation and exchange rates. Later posts will go into more depth on each area. Ignore this at your peril!

Thai visa issues and questions. The issue of visa’s isn’t really that difficult once you’ve got all the information, in theory. In practice it can create all types of headaches. How can you legally stay in Thailand, especially for those under the age of 50 or not married to a Thai citizen this can be a problem. I’ll take a look at the different visa options and what each might mean for you.

Thailand Retirement Visa

Planning for your future in Thailand. This obviously ties in with the money question above, but could also ties in with the question of where you would live as well as encompassing a back out plan. Our needs at 70 years old can be quite different from those at 50 years old and some thought should be given to this.

Thai Insurance – Unless you’ve got retirement medical insurance from a former employer you’ll definitely want to look into some form of comprehensive medical insurance. And what about auto or home insurance? Is Thailand the same in this regard as Western countries?

Buying versus renting your accommodations. Renting is a drain on your financial resources, but buying in Thailand can be difficult if not impossible for foreigners. Not to mention questions about the safety of your investment if you do buy. Pro’s and con’s of each approach will be discussed. Also, is it better to go with a house or condominium?

That’s just a quick list of the major issues I can think of. I’m sure others will arise from discussion and many sub topics will be identified as well. If you can think of anything major that you would want to have discussed regarding retirement in Thailand please leave a comment and I’ll add the subject to my research list.

Overall I think you’re making a great decision to retire to Thailand, of course I’m biased as well. With some forethought and a good plan Thailand can be a wonderful place to retire with it’s great people and food, nightlife, beautiful Thai girls, great weather (if you like it hot), beaches, mountains and culture. Add to that the infrastructure provided thanks to the tourism in Thailand and you have a great foreign retirement destination.

Looking forward to your comments and much more to come!

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I know that it’s been quite awhile since I posted here and I’d like to thank you all for being patient with me.  I’ve been quite busy with other projects and mostly with taking Golf around to see different parts of the US, getting her a driver’s license and car and getting her settled in a new job here.

Now that things are settled down a bit I will be posting more frequently, I hope you continue to stick around.

This week (and possibly next) will be mostly devoted to answering the following question posted to What Do You Want To Know About Thailand

I found your web site and I’m happy that someone feels that they can answer my questions. I’ve visited Thailand twice. I would like to investigate either retiring to Thailand or having a second home. If you can could you please afford any and all information regarding this possible scenarios, I would be most appreciative.

Regards,
Gary McWilliams

Well Gary it’s a pretty broad question and I’ll do my best to address it.  If any of my readers have something to add please comment freely.  The more comments the better.  I think it will both help answer Gary‘s question and probably bring up some additional questions he hasn’t even thought of yet.

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When European and American fellows come to Thailand to meet a Thai girl, quite a few of them will join 1 of the Thai dating firms that abound in Bangkok. Here, they connect with several women who match their criteria, many of them girlish and beautiful and, for a good number of these fellows, matrimony will come after the Thai dating experience quickly. They end up with a youthful spouse, who is typically very cute and has all the things a fellow thinks he wants.

For the ladies who sign up with the Thai dating companies, they typically say they are looking for a man who is kind, considerate, will take care of me, has dosh and a steady job. When they connect with an older Western guy, through the Thai dating company, they believe he possesses all these characteristics.

The issues begin for the lady when they get back to the bloke’s native country to learn he is a working class fellow, with scant money and no life. I’ve met Thai girls who have wedded a man similar to this, traveled to America to live with them, and decided within a couple weeks that this bloke and lifestyle is not possible for them. They turned up back on the first airplane to Thailand a few weeks later. For Thai ladies who decide on this life, they want to see other countries. All Thais however adore Thailand and the lifestyle there. It only takes several weeks in the cold of England or the brashness of the US for them to decide they desire no part of it.

For the men, they marry a Thai girl thinking they have got a girl who is pretty, young, will love them and take care of them, and be their dream spouse. Reality comes when the real personality of the Thai wife comes forward. Thai girls have an outer demeanor of calm and subservience. In truth, Thai ladies rule the roost and have powerful persona’s. For a American bloke who believed he had his meek dream girl, it’s a huge wake up call. Suddenly their Thai wife is tougher and harder to please than any American woman they’ve ever been with. I can attest to this as Golf definitely has a very strong side. In general she is quite easy going and willing to please…right up to the point where you cross her…then watch out!

Additionally there is the truth that the American bloke is deluding himself when he assumes a youthful, attractive Thai woman is dating or marrying him for himself. These women are searching for a better life (who can criticize them!), and it’s completely about economics. Most of them would not date the fifty-five year old American man if they had other options. But, if the 55 year old American guy comes with a huge home, a nice automobile and a large bank account – yep, they’ll take him. In the future however, when he realizes communication with his wife is limited because her language skills are low and she has differing hobbies and desires, that’s when these blokes start thinking about divorce.

For the girls, Thailand has become a place that is concerned with money and material wealth. Most average Thai girls have no recourse to achieving this so, when a Western man appears like a knight in shining armor, not many of them will spurn his propositions. Everything they have ever dreamed of is being given to them. Why would they turn it down? And they are even turning to the Thai dating sites in increasing numbers to obtain this lifestyle for themselves. Don’t believe me? Go check one of the Thai dating sites and see how many girls are signed up there.

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I think the most cute girls in the world are Thailand girls. I believe you have possibly already read about this on Thailand Musings before, but I believe that it bears restating. If you are on this website reading this post then I’m confident you believe it too when I state that Thai girls are certainly the cutest girls on the planet. I suppose that might be disputed and I would be pleased to hear your opinion in the comments below, but that is my idea and I’m sticking to it.

What makes me think that Thailand girls are so amazingly sexy you might ask. Well, the reasons are numerous, but here are just a few:

• Their gracious demeanor
• The shy smiles
• Slender sexy bodies
• Soft raven black hair
• Exotic dark eyes
• Silky smooth skin

Don’t get me wrong, other girls of the world have their merits as well, but it seems none of them get my interest like Thailand girls.

Besides which, Thai women take care of their husbands unlike anything I have ever experienced in America. From dinner and cleaning to the bedroom, Thailand girls are a treat as a spouse. I know not every relationship is ideal and neither will your relationship with a Thai woman be, but it is as close to the ideal as I’ve found. Sure there are bumps, but they are mostly small and many times culturally caused, just requiring some learning and sympathy on each person’s part to avoid in the future.

If you’re ready for the experience of your lifetime and happiness in abundance then I recommend you get out there and find yourself a cute Thai girl today. There are scores of ways to meet Thai women, even if you’re not presently in Thailand. If you do happen to be in Thailand then so much the better, simply initiate conversations wherever you are, possibly asking for assistance with your Thai or where the limes are in the supermarket or whatever. It’s simple to break the ice and once you are beyond the initial stage of connecting it’s quite easy to get a phone number.

If you are not physically in Thailand then it’s different, but still simple for you to meet Thai women. Just browse on over to Thai Love Links.com and begin browsing. Once you’ve found a Thai girl that you think is interesting or attractive send her your interest and that’s it. It’s so easy on ThaiLoveLinks because the women are there for the same thing as you, to meet foreigners, to hook up and presumably marry a foreigner.

If you agree with me that Thailand women are the cutest women in the world then get out there and locate one for yourself. There’s simply no excuse at all to believe that you can’t have a sexy young Thai girl fall in love with you. So many of them are attracted to foreigners, that hooking up with one is like shooting fish in a barrel. Once you’ve dated some cute Thailand girls you’ll definitely thank me for pushing you to do so.

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It seems to me that there are lots of of fellows hunting for a Thailand girl to be their wife and I believe this is a very good idea. I can assure you from first hand experience that a Thai wife makes a wonderful partner and can make your life more rich. If you haven’t already taken the first step I recommend that you do so by getting online and looking around at who some of the Thai dating sites can offer you.

You will find that your new Thai wife won’t be leery of work, but you should give her some space in her imaginings of a new life of leisure. A Thai lady will cook dinner, do the laundry, bring you a drink, spoil you and even deal with you hanging out at the local pub for a few drinks every evening as long as you take care of her as well (which might include sending money home to her family). You might even go as far as making her responsible for the family budget and you can be certain that she will do an excellent job.

You Need to Be Patient
I can’t even tell you how often I’ve heard of fellows going to Thailand on vacation and getting hitched to the first lovely lady they encounter. This is not only foolish for the bloke, but equally foolish for the girl who is probably just taking whatever chance she gets as her chances of meeting Europeans and Americans is limited, especially if she lives and works outside the tourist areas.

In your own country you wouldn’t imagine marrying someone you met a month ago. It takes time to get to know your new friend, to comprehend her culture and background and to gain each others trust. You also need to comprehend the financial repercussions of your relationship, as throughout history in Thailand marriage is a financial partnership as much as a romantic one. Be sure to look before you leap.

That’s not to say it won’t work if you meet someone and get to know them very quickly. Golf and I knew each other less than 5 months when we got married. Sometimes you know when something is right in your heart and it’s worth it to take a chance. It was definitely worth it for us.

Considering Age vs Beauty
It’s true that younger Thai girls are obviously prettier and vivacious, many times they are less settled and less reliable. Older Thai girls usually will have improved social skills, better values and will be more steadfast. Thailand has undergone quite a bit of changes over the past twenty to thirty and you’ll find that the younger Thai women might be lacking in a lot of the former charm and innocence of Thailand. This certainly doesn’t mean that you can’t find a charming wife in Thailand, it just means that your Thailand girl will be a bit more worldly than in the past.

Be a culture scholar
Make an attempt to learn Thai language and learn as much as you can about the Thai culture. There are many sites on the net you can visit to learn about Thai culture and to learn some Thai language (hint: subscribe to Thailand Musings). If you ever expect to cross the cultural boundary you should at least respect your Thai wife enough to try.

It still amazes me that lots of fellows still travel to Thailand expecting to collect a new Thai bride like getting a new wardrobe. Even more amazing is that they imagine their new Thai wife will slide right into life back in their home city without any understanding of her culture. Not to say it can’t be accomplished, but I think it is crucial to at least have knowledge of Thai culture so you understand what your bride is going through. Thai and Western cultures can be totally different in many ways.

Don’t shy away from a shy Thailand girl
Thai’s are usually very conservative and shy so I would expect at least a bit of shyness from your Thai girl, especially at the start. Don’t be surprised if the lady invites a family member or best friend with them on your first couple of dates, this is completely normal for Thai culture. Also, don’t be surprised if it takes a bit of time to have your 1st kiss. Romantic actions aren’t viewed as they are in the West and intimacy is something that typically comes later in a relationship in Thailand than in America.

That being said, typically a shy Thailand girl is also a good lady. One who has good manners, morals and values. These are exactly the types of women you want to be looking for if you’re looking to marry a Thai lady. Please be patient as often Thai good girls will think that once you are sharing a bed your future marriage is guaranteed. Try not to hurt them.

Final Thoughts
While I have tried to be as objective as possible each guys experiences will obviously be unique. Some of you may not agree with what I’ve written and that’s fine, it is simply a general guideline for successfully finding a Thai wife. I have some experience in this matter obviously, but it is uniquely mine. While stereotypes abound on the internet you’ll find that they are rarely completely true. If you approach finding a good Thailand girl with your eyes wide open and fully informed you stand a much better chance of having success.

Keep in mind that there is no such thing as the perfect relationship. Any good relationship will require work. Meeting the perfect Thai wife will give you the feeling you’re on cloud nine and certainly many guys report feeling like the happiest man on the planet once they locate their perfect Thailand girl.

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Lately I’ve noticed that there are lots of guys out there considering lovely Thai girls as girlfriends, and why not? Because you’re here taking in this post I know that you too are interested in finding out how to meet Thai girls for dating, love and maybe even more and I hope I can assist you in your search.

If you have visited Thailand in the past then you’ve seen the large numbers of lovely Thai girls in the streets and stores and you probably already know how simple it is to find a Thai girlfriend. If that is what you want then I know you’ll be able to get what you need.

And how about those of you reading this that haven’t been to Thailand – is it possible for you also date a attractive Thai girlfriend?

Totally and you should know that it’s quite easy besides. Because of the genius of the internet finding Thailand girlfriends couldn’t be easier or more rewarding. All you have to do is enroll with a good Thai personals site and within five minutes you can be meeting ladies in Thailand. By the way, this works for those of you that have visited Thailand as well.

Connecting with lovely Thai girls online is the next great thing in dating. Thai ladies have obviously caught on to the web and it appears that this is now their medium of choice to meet single European and American fellows. You’ll find that there are literally hundreds of thousands of girls that have created profiles on Thai dating websites and they all have one thing in common – they are interested in connecting with and marrying Europeans and Americans.

This is a great development for us fellows on many levels. First off, meeting Thai girls is now cheap and easy. It’s no longer necessary to put out thousands of Euro’s or dollars just to travel to Thailand and begin the process of connecting with the women. You can start meeting lovely Thai ladies very inexpensively from the comfort of home.

This is how Golf and I met and I can’t say enough how glad I am that I finally put my pride aside and decided to try out ThaiLoveLinks. It was definitely the best decision of my life thus far.

Secondly, it’s no longer necessary to frequent the pubs of Thailand to meet girls. Now, I like a beer as much as any other man, but let’s face it, the honesty of the women in clubs is quite often questionable. It may be good for a one nighter, but not really so appealing if you’re searching for a girlfriend or spouse. Now you can keep your partying separate from your girlfriend search, which is probably a very wise thing.

So, listen to me if you are thinking of Thailand girlfriends get yourself online and start the search there. You can always travel to Thailand after you have gotten to know some Thai girls, which might make your visit even more pleasant. I hope this has been a help to a few of you and please leave me a comment below if you have any questions.

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Why do you need a Thai girl as your girlfriend? Have you thought about the real answer to this query? I believe for quite a few men it’s really easy to figure out as they have either been residing in Thailand for some time or else they have considerable experience with Thai culture and Thai girls. On the other hand, if this is a dream for you and you haven’t had any experience with Thailand you could need to think a bit on why you desire a Thai girlfriend.

For whatever reason, there are a considerable number of Western men who adore Thai women. It may be the slim bodies, the attitudes or the attention of Thai girls that makes them so pretty, but the point is they ARE sexy. Traveling to Thailand is simple enough and you could be surprised to find that getting a Thai girlfriend is simple enough as well.

There are the typical methods of meeting girls such as clubs, but I wouldn’t counsel taking this way unless you’re prepared for distrust, requests for dosh and a broken heart. There are better methods and you’ll discover that there are many awesome sites online to assist you in meeting Thai girls. These sites have tens of thousands of women all hunting for the exact thing you are, friendship, love and maybe even marriage.

Any of the Thai dating website can put you in contact with literally thousands of cute Thai girls who are looking to become your girlfriend. It won’t make any difference whether you’re in Thailand or located elsewhere in the world, these personals sites will make sure it’s easy for you to locate a Thai girlfriend. You’ll discover that quite a few of the ladies register for love, but many are also there simply looking for a bit of fun.

After connecting with a few of the girls, working past the inevitable language issues and getting to know a few of them you’re very likely to spend a bit of your time emailing and chatting online. If you can get a webcam this is even better as the ladies will certainly desire to see what you look like. It shouldn’t be too long until you have a pretty serious communication going with one (or more) of the girls.

At this juncture you’ll possibly desire to head over to Thailand, if you’re not already there, and hook up with the women in person. While the personals scene in Thailand is super for Westerners, there are 1000’s of blokes who have gone the route of connecting with their Thai girlfriends through Thai personals sites. It certainly beats meeting the girls in a bar or club.

If you do travel to Thailand and meet a girl in a club there are certainly some things to be aware of. It appears that a lot men lose all common sense when connecting with Thai women in clubs, so attempt to keep your wits about you and don’t add to the fodder for stories about love gone sour on the internet. Always remember that the whole reason women work in bars is to make cash. They may fantasize of a knight in shining armor to sweep them away, but this is simply that, a dream, and earning money is primary.

If you go about it correctly and take your time then there’s no reason you can’t locate a Thai girlfriend and love through the Thai personals websites. Many websites on the web attempt to tell you about getting a Thai girlfriend as if it is a set process, but it’s really no different than beginning a relationship anywhere else. Simply take it easy, be honest and trust your instincts.

It’s not possible to totally explain how to get a Thai girlfriend in a post like this, just as it wouldn’t be possible to completely tell you about getting a girlfriend anywhere in the world. The first step is to begin meeting the women and the easiest method for doing this is using the Thai personals sites. After that it’s your call where you need any potential relationships to go. All I can say is that Thai girls are super and finding a Thai girlfriend is easier than you might believe.

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